Mommy Shaming is REAL The PINK controversy!!! /2|22|19
Apr 22, 2019
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cB4_SfUyugg

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good morning everybody
happy Monday I am actually it's 10:15
so I am on schedule and doing what as
far as I'm supposed to be right now I
have my ultrasound if you guys most of
you all know but if you're new to my
channel you may not know that last
Monday I had the Mirena put in to to
help with my endometriosis that I was
diagnosed with and that was how was its
own fiasco in itself but because my
doctor had a really hard time placing
the Mirena
he wanted me to come in a week later and
have a inner uterine ultrasound to check
and make sure that the Mirena is still
in place where it's supposed to be
because he was 50/50 on if he got it in
the right spot or not so I am just
praying that it's in the right spot
because Amy does not want to have to go
through that whole procedure again like
yeah yeah no no no please
he's not doing that this time so anyways
but a little bit of TMI here a little
bit of women talk so men you might want
to excuse yourself free now I started my
period last night
and it was a full fledge hello
system yeah we are talking it is heavy
and I'm having a lot of cramping in my
back and in my hips I have never had
cramping in my hips but I literally have
cramping in my hips and my back just
feels it gets on fire so I am just not
feeling it today
I am hurtin so I called the doctor's
office and I was like hey I have an
appointment today for an internal
ultrasound but I started a period like
what do you want to do she's like well
you know we can still do it it's just
more or less if you're comfortable with
it or not I'm like if you're asking if
I'm comfortable no I'm not but my doctor
really wanted me to be checked a week
after this procedure she's like well
then I would suggest to go ahead and
keep your appointment on my back I'm
like alright you know cuz you just love
being pulled up roaded when you're on
your period so that is where I'm headed
mr. Maya bear mr. Jeremiah bear brought
the bear out of me this morning so he is
allowed when he gets up in the morning
to wake up and kind of get his brain
moving and stuff he's allowed to play a
little bit of his game online if he
chooses to well my son thought today
would be a great day to get online and
play his fortnight with one of his
friends that he goes to school with
although I think that he forgot that he
is not outside and that he has a full
family asleep in the other part of the
house oh my goodness this child you
could probably hear from across my town
he was laughing and screaming so loud
because they were trying to get
something I don't know what I don't I've
you know I've watched the game I paid
attention to it a little bit but I still
don't get the drift of it I really don't
understand the whole thing so it's just
like okay whatever as long as it's not
got anything bad in it and I've got like
the child protection and I have
everything linked to my phone so I see
what all he's going through so it's not
like you know I know this child is from
his class that he's plays with but o-m-g
let me say when you wake me up at seven
o'clock in the morning I don't have to
be up until 9:00 and I did not sleep
hardly at all the night before and I
barely got any ketchup sleep this
morning and minoo wake me up this
morning like that well well the bear was
awoken I stomped my little happy butt
into his room and I'm like what are you
doing like what he's like I'm sorry I'm
like get off your game
happy tell ready for school and you
don't touch your game so yeah we had a
rough beginning this morning with the
family getting woken up by mr. Maya
plane has fortnight game and I'm just
like you've got to seriously be joking
me right now like really please tell me
you are not doing this right now to me
but he was so yes he had everybody awake
at 7 o'clock and then so I was awake and
I thought well you know I've got a
couple more cups you know because I've
got quite a few orders so I just like
you know I'm just gonna start working
get some stuff done with the cups so I
did and so I got two more cups started
on their epoxy so I'm doing good on
timing like I'm figuring this all out I
really need to get another Turner I
really do
if I had two Turner's I could be getting
the cups done even faster was one Turner
it kind of limits you so you know you
deal with what you have and that's
exactly what I'm doing right now and I'm
still making good progress timewise so
I'm so proud of myself for the timing
that I am getting these done it's just a
matter of
continuing to push these out there um
other than that that is all that I have
done today I haven't done too too too
much because it's only ten o'clock so
anyhow I hope you guys are all having a
great start to your guys's Monday
morning as I am and I smile no matter
what because things could be a lot worse
and people do have it a lot worse so
always remember your grass could not be
any worse than another person's grass on
the side of you because well everybody
has their own highs and lows so even
when you think your morning might be the
worst morning ever just think that you
woke up even blessed to breathe again
for another fresh day and a fresh week
and hit the ground running and make a
great day because only you can choose to
make that happen nobody can do that for
you but you so gots to let it just let
everything fall off that could be
negative and remember why you do what
you're doing
I will check in with you guys here so oh
and let you know if face I don't think
they'll say anything to me today it has
to go to him and my doctor and then
he'll talk to me so anyways I will check
in with you guys in just a little bit
and let you know what's going on okay
you guys I am done it is 11 o'clock I
felt like that ultrasound went forever
that's worried look my lips that was
disgusting that's like a five-year-old
anyways so she said that it usually
takes anywhere from a day to two days
for the doctor to get the results so I
imagine by Wednesday should have the
results we'll hope but anyways and I
think today I don't know I think I'm
wanting to go to Walmart and go and get
the babies Maya has lots of summer
clothes I just went and spent like $100
on summer clothes for him but the babies
have no summer clothes like Omar oh he
put a pair of shorts on the other day
and they're so small I was like boy
these things can go to your sister he is
definitely my babies getting bigger
bigger bigger bigger so I think I'm
going to maybe go to Walmart I don't
know I would like to and go and get them
some stuff but first and foremost I'm
gonna go home check in with my hubby see
my babies and then probably get
something to eat because I haven't eaten
yet and I need to probably eat some
breakfast well it's gonna be lunch time
but yeah so we shall see what the test
comes back with but I just definitely
want to check in with you guys and let
you know that I'm thinking about you all
and yeah I'll keep you guys posted on
what's going on and go from there but I
just hope you guys are again having a
beautiful day it's a beautiful day here
it's hot I it's not hot it's just humid
like I've never dealt with humidity like
this and I am like I don't know how the
people in Texas do it because I was like
you know I watch a couple of youtubers
that are that live in Texas and I know
one of my really good friends her name
is Cruz she's on this channel
she lives in Texas and I don't know how
they do it because they talk about the
humidity and I'm dying and it's I it's
nothing close to what I'm sure Texas is
but yeah so anyways enough of ramblin
ramblin rod do you guys ever watch that
video or that show when you were a
little ramblin rod it was like in the
80s I think I did when I was little
actually I have two cousins that were on
ramblin rod when they were younger
it's kind of cool anyways enough of that
I am going to close so I can head home
and see what the rest of the day in
holds I don't know if I'm gonna upload
this now or if I'm gonna try and catch a
little bit more footage I really would
like to go home and do a little bit of
reading cuz I haven't done our reading
with you guys in so long I feel like
it's something that's a must so I might
go ahead and do that yeah I'll probably
go home and get a reading in so that way
we can at least have something cuz we
haven't had our book reading and for
it's been a good almost week and that's
that's not good that is just clearly not
good
so gots to get back to the grind of
things
so anyways okay let me head home and get
adjusted and then I will check in with
you guys again in a little bit you know
I was just listening to the radio on the
way home and they were talking about
pink
so the musician pink I don't know if
everybody knows who that is or not but
she's a really well-known musician or
singer and anyways so I guess over the
weekend she posted a picture of her son
that was in a t-shirt
and he's younger like little and he had
a swim diaper on but then he had it
taken off or something so she had posted
a picture of him on social media and
just a t-shirt with no underwears on but
she's scribbled out the part where it
didn't have his you know we're covered
his private areas so she covered it you
know when she did what she should do as
a mom you know to protect her child's
privacy so it was basically you know him
and his t-shirt but she scribbled out
the private areas so I guess she posted
up on social media and there was I guess
a lot of people that mommy shamed her
and was saying how about a person she
was and that they're gonna call CPS on
her because she's you know such a bad
person and yada yada yada and you know
she was just talking about how you know
Mommy shaming is such it's it's it's sad
but it's so popular these days and you
know the radio station was talking about
how the trolls come out of the Woodworks
when you know they want to and point
fingers when they want to and you know I
don't think people realize that you know
what big step that is to call CPS and
somebody that's huge like you don't play
around with that you that's not a joke
you know and you're taking the chances
of messing with somebody's life their
children's life just because you feel
one certain way and it wasn't like she
went and blasted a picture of her son
and no clothes at all and didn't cover
his private areas or anything like that
like she legit covered everything so it
could have technically been him in a
pants and a shirt but it you know
she scribbled that area out but
literally people were like well we're
gonna call CPS and turn her in and all
this stuff and I was just like listening
to the story and I'm thinking you know
how many times that it has been said
even to me
oh you know you're such a bad mom and
I'm gonna you know we're gonna call CPS
on you and it's like first and foremost
CPS doesn't just jump to every
accusation there has got to be a lot
behind it and I know that for my own
sake because I've worked with the state
for many many years and I know how the
state works so for me it's like go ahead
and use that as a threat use that and
even if they did come out because they
have to come out if there is a you know
a call of neglect or whatever a child
well check or whatever they you know
legally they have to come out and check
it go for it I have nothing to hide and
majority of these people don't have
nothing to hide but it's so sad when
these people sit behind these keyboard
and think there are these keyboard
warriors you know because they have
these standards that they put you above
and yet they would never hold themselves
to those standards but because you're in
the limelight you're you know in the
public eye then they hold you to these
standards that they would never expect
for themselves and it's so sad that
people literally use CPS as like a
threat and it's like get over yourselves
like really get over yourselves that's
so sad that you legit would be willing
to destroy a family and bring CPS into
something because it somebody posted a
picture of their child and a teacher and
scribbled out the naked area like give
me a break and so I just you know I was
in the story and I was like you know
that just brings about so much with my
own sake you know people like when I
posted that hold all about
cusco in how people were like you feed
your kids to horrible food and you know
we're gonna call sepia cps on you go for
it go for it you do not scare me one bit
to call CPS and tell them that i feed my
kids waffles it's not it's not I don't
find that anything to put fear into me
but I just think it's sad that people
use that as a threat that they feel like
CPS the word CPS is such a scary phrase
for parents because CPS can step in and
if there was a reason to you know legit
make a move to take a child out of the
home or whatever they're not just gonna
walk into a home and take a child from a
place of their environment just because
somebody from YouTube or from social
media in general thinks that the parent
doesn't deserve to have their children
like it goes far and beyond that but I
just listening to that it took me to a
place of you know here is this lady she
is she's a singer she's so popular she's
gotten millions of followers and
you know a lot of people look up to her
and you know all these things but it
doesn't even start to excuse her from
having Truls attacking her so if a troll
can attack someone like her what in what
would really make a thing for someone to
not come after me if that makes sense
and so you know it just kind of
reassured me that you know what I'm not
the only one that people come after
there's many people out there that get
attacked by these trolls and that's what
they're called trolls and there are many
people out there that think that you
know they have the right to address
their opinion and not just address their
opinion but address their opinion and
expect you to to listen to their opinion
and act on their opinion and that's not
the way life works you know that's the
that's the joy about being your own
individual is you know you can take you
can take opinions and suggestions and
things but it doesn't mean you have to
go by exactly what people said so you
know just because pink decided she
wasn't going to take the picture town of
her son people were like well we're
gonna call CPS to turn you in and you're
a bad mom and Yetta Yetta Yetta and it's
like really just because you think she
should take the picture down but that's
her son she should have the right to
post what she wants to post so anyways
enough of that I just was when I
listened to it I just thought to myself
you know I know that I'm not the only
one that has trolls that attack me you
know I know that you know I just I
plainly you know I have learned my
lesson about staying in my own lane
doing me and me only I don't want to put
my nose in anybody else's business come
on squirrel
anyways but yeah I just you know it
reassured me that I'm not alone and that
there are other people out there that
get you know criticized for everything
that they do - and I'm not anything
special that I get you know ridiculed
for for sneezy in the wrong way but as
long as I stay in my lane and I just
ignore the negativity and yeah you know
it
I do remove comments now if they're
negative because you know what I one am
NOT going to address it I'm not going to
even remotely clap back to you and snap
back to you and tell you anything
because you know it's a waste of my time
so if I just remove it from my channel
then I don't have to see it and neither
does anybody else because majority of
the people here on my channel are here
to support me and support each other but
again it doesn't weigh that there are
people out there that do nothing but
live their life to ridicule and tell
people they're no good because they feel
so bad within themselves so if that is
you today where you just feel like
you're not mounting to what you should
be mounting to or you feel like you know
people are pointing your fingers at you
and telling you you're just such a
horrible person you're a horrible parent
and everything in between you're a bad
dieter you're a bad eater you're you
know you're too fat you know and things
like that just realize that the people
that cast judgement and ridicule you
they are literally saying those things
to themselves and if they cannot talk
sweet to themselves they're not going to
be able to talk sweet to anybody else
and so for us we just need to turn
return the favour of love and compassion
to those people because honestly they're
hurting within themselves because they
would not be nasty and ugly if they were
being able to be loving to them own
selves but if they can't love them so
and can be compassionate to the mone
cells they ain't gonna be able to be
compassionate or love anybody else so
they're gonna drag as many people down
with them because they don't feel good
about themselves they definitely don't
want others to feel good about
themselves
so anyways enough of that rambling I
just pulled into my house so I'm gonna
go and I'm really I don't even have an
appetite so I'm cramping so bad but I
need to probably eat a little something
so I recheck my medicines but I will
check in with you guys in a little bit I
think I don't know I'm debating on just
going ahead and posting this up and then
just start my readings tomorrow I don't
know we'll see we will see but I
definitely just want to put it out there
that I love you guys and you guys are
again awesome I love my channel and I
love everybody that's on my channel and
you know this is just this community is
growing with such amazing people and I
couldn't be more happier and more
fulfilled to see my channel growing with
such amazing people behind it I love you
and I will check in with you guys soon
